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Sangre de Christo Mts. Colorado |
Change of plans. My son’s
grandma is dying. Quickly. We are finishing out the winter in Colorado, after
all. Minimizing our life into a 28 ft. RV and a 14 ft. vintage trailer has
given us the freedom to be able to be here with her and grandpa. Slow travel
means we can stay here as long as needed and postpone our planned trip to Texas
until fall or whenever. Our income does not depend on us being in a certain
place at a certain time.
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Yak and ma at Gator Farm |
Homeschooling/roadschooling
means Yak is not tied to someone else’s schedule or agenda. He does his
assignments when he chooses, as long as he gets them done. If he doesn’t, he
knows he will be doing them before anything else, the next day. This frees him
up to explore the grandparents’ homestead and visit with his aunts, uncles,
cousins and older brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces, as they filter in
and out, paying their last visits to grandma. Now that the weather is warming
up, we are also able to explore more of the local area – field trips for Yak;
caregiver breaks for his dad. Who would ever look for sand dunes (Great SandDunes National Park) or an alligator farm (Colorado Gators) in the Rocky
Mountain State?
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Yak and pa at Sand Dunes |
Slow travel allows us to
find community in the local Catholic Church. The ladies of the Catholic Mothers
Society come over to pray the rosary with the grands a couple of days a week.
This gives them great joy. To see the smile on grandpa’s face with his family
and friends praying around him, the peace in grandma’s eyes and her joy at
having her friends come to see her is a great relief to the brothers and
sisters who are staying on to care for their parents. The parish priest sends
Holy Eucharist home for the grands with whichever son or daughter makes it to
8a.m. Mass; sometimes he brings it in person.
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Pretty Ms. Susie, soaking up the sun |
Not having to confine our
travels to 2 or 3 weeks out of the year and the odd weekend, we don’t have the
stress of trying to see everything as fast as we can. Living tiny forces us to
reduce the clutter in our lives. Cooking and cleaning are done quickly. There
is more time to play music, walk the dogs, and laugh at the cat trying to catch
the laser pointer. With no set time for getting up or going to bed, we can stay
up late to stargaze and sleep in the next day. Or we can get up to enjoy the
sunrise and get back in our jammies right after supper.
We are most blessed to be
able to be available to our families when they need us.
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2 comments:
We used to live as you do now. 5 of us, 3 dogs, and 1 cat in a 30ft pull behind camper. We "road" schooled and enjoyed it. Right now we're sitting still for a few years to take care of some family but soon enough we'll be back on the road again. I'm sorry for the family illness, but oh so glad that you're free to spend this time with them.
Thanks, Chrystal. Hope you're enjoying your current situation;)
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